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Hey faculty of Cracku While giving mock or solving question I am facing a special type of problem i.e., I am not mentally present at the moment instead my mind lingers around past events that I am not proud of such as not scoring 90 perecntage in class 10,12 or sometime behaving absurdly with other person in past, which breaks my focus and I end up cursing and/or abusing myself hence which ultimately hamper my score and percentile which additionally lead to cursing or abusing myself even more or to some extent I start to physically hurt myself for poor performance both in past as well as for present, what should I do regarding the same cause this directly or Indirectly harming my scores, morale, mental health and physical health as well
this exam is not the end bro. See your life from a broader perspective, 10 years later you will not even remember about the exam. and about the past wee have all done things which we shouldnt have, we all have taken decisions for which we are facing the consequences. but at that moment you have to leave everything behind and be in the present . I know its hard but you have to do it.
just think two situations-
1. how your life will change after clearing it.(a new beginning)
2. what the worst is for you if you fail to clear it.( its not the end)
you will have a perspective after it. All the best.
You have to live with you past but you dont have to live in it.
1st - Make realistic goals for yourself
2nd- Forgive yourself and try to live in present and embrace your present
Everyone has something they are ashamed of, Unfortunately, that can't be changed but your future is still a variable. Try to make yourself a little better every day and don't expect some outlandish result.
Drop this plan and make a new plan, May be harsh but true, Cat is not the end... even not IIMs, May be, u r not capable enough to crack the exam, but, dont waste ur life in this trap.... (Accept your limitations)
loved ur honest talk everything will be fine just fight ur mind fight win over it
